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Issues
of Our Days
Forced
Female Suicide
By Phyllis Chesler
FrontPageMagazine.com
| January 22, 2004
Are
Palestinian female suicide bombers active members of a Death Cult,
or unwilling participants in it? Are they religious fanatics, Western-style
revolutionaries, or clinically depressed human beings facing No
Exit lives? Have they been indoctrinated and brainwashed by master
seducers or have they been brutally forced into it?
These
are necessary questions to ask when contemplating the emergence
of a new female form of suicide bomber. Certainly, some female Palestinian
suicide bombers have "freely" chosen the murderous martyr's
path: most likely, such women have had close male relatives who
have died in the war that the Palestinians have declared against
the Israelis.
But
evidence also suggests that the Palestinians have created yet another
form of Arab honor killing. For some time now, reports have reached
my desk about Palestinian girls and women being recruited, seduced,
and trapped, by older male terrorists in very woman-specific ways.
For
example, I have been told that in one instance, the chosen Palestinian
girl was unmarried and pregnant. She was offered the chance to "cleanse"
her honor by blowing herself and Jews up. Her family spirited her
out of the West Bank to safety in Europe. I have also been told
that some Palestinian masters of mass murder have themselves had
affairs with vulnerable young Palestinian girls in order to compromise
their "honor" and to season them, pimp-style, for martyrdom.
Hard fact are hard to come by, anecdotes abound.
Journalist
Barbara Victor, the author of the recent book about Palestinian
female suicide bombers, Army of Roses, and playwright Glyn O'Malley,
whose play, Paradise, is on the same subject, have both dealt with
some of the earliest Palestinian female suicide bombers whose lives
were stunted by oppression.
Wafa
Idris, the first Palestinian suicide bomber, was probably in a clinical
depression. Her first and only child had been a stillborn and, as
a result, she was now sterile. Her husband, who was also her first
cousin, had divorced her over this and had already taken a second
wife. She was mocked by family and friends and she understood that
she had no future in Palestinian society. As a divorced and infertile
woman, she was doubly "tainted." Her bleak prospects
due to Islamic and Palestinian misogyny and not to the Israeli-Palestinian
conflict were used to trap her into redeeming her dishonor
by becoming a murdering martyr.
We
cannot say that these women (or, for that matter, their male counterparts)
are making "free" choices. No one is offering them the
presidency of their country, an all-paid scholarship to a prestigious
university or, as a third choice, the opportunity to kill
and die at a tender age. Their choices are "forced." They
are probably not political extremists or revolutionaries in the
Western sense. They have grown up in a tribal, Islamic society in
which women are expected to sacrifice themselves in terrible and
medieval ways.
Most
recently, the case of Reem al-Riyashi suggests a similar and horrifying
scenario. Several Israel sources have discovered that this young
mother of two very young children "was forced to carry out
the suicide attack as punishment for cheating on her husband."
Allegedly, al-Riyashi's husband was a Hamas activist and her lover
was a Hamas operative who had carried out the love affair with the
express purpose of recruiting her. According to the British Sunday
Times, al-Riyashi's husband himself drove her to the border crossing.
This
is unbelievable and tragic. Had these men threatened to kill
her children if she refused this mission? I would not be surprised.
Whatever
the tragic circumstances, it is important to understand that the
coercion of women by men to become suicide bombers is not an aberration
in the Middle East. Myth aside, Islam is the largest and most savage
practitioner of religious and gender apartheid on the planet. If
you attend college in the Western world, you'd have no way of knowing
this perhaps this is because many Western multi-cultural
ideologues have muted their criticism of Islamic misogyny in order
to propagandize for the victory of the Palestinians over the Zionists.
Traditionally,
gender apartheid under Islam includes female genital mutilation,
compulsory veiling, arranged marriage, sequestration, polygamy,
stonings for alleged adultery, approved wife-beating, and Arab honor
killings in which raped girls and women are killed by their father
or brother for the crime of "dishonor" they have brought
upon their family.
It
is this context that compels us to stop romanticizing these homicide
bombers and presenting them as heroes.
I understand
what the Israeli ambassador to Sweden felt when he saw the exhibit
that glorified yet another Palestinian female suicide bomber: Hanadi
Jaradat, who killed 22 innocent Israeli civilians, both Christian
Arabs and Jews. Jaradat's smiling, serene face floated above a pool
of civilian blood The artwork had been done by an expatriate Israeli
artist and installed at the entrance to a building that is to house
an upcoming conference against genocide. The Swedes had promised
the Israelis that the Middle East conflict was not going to be part
of the conference.
But
this art exhibit found a way to bring the Middle East conflict into
the conference in a way that justified and glorified homicidal/genocidal
suicide bombers who, upon closer inspection, may be committing a
"forced" suicide as their only way out.
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